We already know that good guys always are left high and dry. And how into the account of good girls? In the book "Why men prefer stinkers" to Sherri Argou opens the reasons on which men make a choice in advantage "self-assured and proof" women (it gives such interpretation to a word "stinker"), and those who is ready to give to the man predominating position, remain with what. Аргоу has interviewed among men who have told that has affected their decision to continue or stop the relation with this or that woman. It was found out that in the opinion of the man the woman looks more attractive if it has a private life, own plans and they do not allow the man to gain from time to time over themselves top. And who after that will tell, what "stinker" it to be bad? Obviously not these guys. The female Internet portal iVillage has published 10 arguments of men in favour of "the stinkers", Sherri Argou which have got to the book. "The worst that the woman can make it to meet the man every evening. Thus, it becomes for it the girl for pleasant pastime and" the reserve list "will get to it. It will come to nine evenings to leave at half past nine. In a consequence if the man is assured that will always receive that is necessary for it from the woman, he and a finger will not stir somehow to keep in touch"."Men very much like to compete. When the man buys the car which has left in limited quantity, he feels that has got something especial. Why sometimes guys arrange street races, having argued on the car? Because they wish to win, win a victory and to leave by the car of the loser. In the same way occurs and to women. The woman who is easy for winning, will not cause in it" a competitive itch ". While the woman ceases to express the opinion and starts to agree with everything that the man speaks, he starts to have a feeling of inexpressible boredom "." The Woman never should search for the man, combing those three bars in which he intended to spend evening. If the man says to you that will be there and there, it is not necessary to search for it. It he should search for you, only in this case it is possible to count on its constancy "." My bride became the first woman in my life which has put me into place. It constantly reminds me: "Hey, who does not keep you". If I talk nonsense, trying to get out, she directly speaks "Allow me to save up your efforts and time. It is not necessary for me to dupe on ears. I on it will not be bought." I precisely know that if it will catch me on a deceit, I will receive a frying pan on a head. And I respect her most than other women whom I ever knew "." If it needed to express one word the opinion on the woman which вовсем is necessary on the man this word would be boring"."Confidence of own forces it when you do not try to give interpretation or to reflect in hearing concerning everything that you see. This character trait helps relations not to develop on a ready trajectory. For example, each time when I give to the woman flowers it reminds me that its were at a given time has stopped it to do. Whether thus she tries I will learn and further to give it flowers. Actually, I have a sensation that it does not like flowers or that the fact of is unpleasant to it that I give them". "The woman should not speak:" You so seldom call to me ", or:" You never said that love me ". It is necessary to understand that one of the best character traits of the woman its unpredictability. The man should not be able foresee your acts. If the man can always foretell that you will make during this or that moment, it will be lost for you, as the partner for long relations. He begins to search for other woman who will be for it a riddle and which he is unable supervise". "If she in something is assured, means, in it there is an internal core. She is that woman whom he respects, instead of the fragile cookies, ready to break at the slightest pressing". "To the man should seem that you do not give it all yourselves with words:" Here it I. Take me ". Men wish to build guesses. Properly to break a head. If the man goes to cinema he hopes that it will be such film from the very beginning of which viewing it will sit on a seat edge. If in a film neither to whom will not tear off a hand or a foot nor whom will not shoot down also any building will not blow up, he will solve that just have thrown it on ticket cost". "To the woman does not follow even jokes on a marriage theme. Once I was on the second appointment to the girl which, as well as I, came from Ireland. In this country there is a saying:" If you kiss me, you should marry me ". If you really would like to marry, never speak to the man about it. To arrive so all the same what to give it the instruction on your operation and to tell, how it is better to play on your weaknesses, using a bait".
